When your kids don’t listen, how long does your patience last?
You think you’ve tried everything. You ask nicely, you keep asking nicely until you explode, you lecture about all you do for them, you give them consequences for not listening, you give them extra privileges if they do — but your kids still won’t listen.
You can’t seem to get them do what they should: brush their teeth, go to bed, get off the computer, quiet down in the car, eat a healthy meal, pick up their dirty clothes, etc. What’s wrong with them? What’s wrong with you?
What if: They do listen, but they don’t like what they hear? (That’s not okay, is it?)
Now ask yourself: Are you asking them for cooperation or obedience?