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It’s easier than you think—and the hardest thing you’ll ever do.

Kids HuggingI spend a lot of time writing and talking about my opinions on children’s behavior, my theories of Connective Parenting, validation, acceptance—all the principles I believe in to encourage parents to let go of the old traditional methods of parenting we have used for eons. I want us to change our mindsets from a culture of punishment to one of compassion.

A culture of compassion does not at all mean being passive and permissive. Firmness, limits, rules, and making sure the adult’s needs are met as well as the child’s are all attributes of compassionate parenting. Compassion simply means understanding the child’s point of view, the roots of their behavior and being willing to hear what you and the rest of the world must sound like from your child’s point of view.

But today instead of my opinion, I want to share an email I had from a connective parent that I think sums it up.

I am the proud mom of a 14 year old girl, a 6 year old boy, a 4 year old girl, and a 3 Read more…