Are You Ready to Better Connect with Your Child?
Ever think your child will NEVER listen? Imagine if you shifted your thinking to realize your kid is having a problem, not being a problem. Trust me, that switch can change your life.
Ready to join thousands of other people who have changed perspectives and rediscovered the joy in parenting? Keep reading to learn how Connective Parenting can get you to the place you want to be with your kids.
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Kids are not the problem. How parents react is the problem. Learn how to change your perspective to have a better relationship with your children.
No, you are not alone. Listen in to hear Bonnie coach real parents with real problems. Learn new perspectives and strategies to use in your own conflicts and struggles to raise your kids with self-confidence and resilience.
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Parent counseling and coaching is available 1 on 1 or in small groups to help you understand your child and support your efforts to be a more peaceful and confident parent.
Either by phone, Facetime, Zoom, or in my office, I offer you an initial free half-hour conversation to discuss your situation and how my work might help your family before any commitment is made — no obligation.
What do I do when my kids are driving me crazy? How do I stop reacting? How can I get my kids to listen? Connective Parenting has answers for you. Read the books, take the course, change your life.
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Parenting books and products to learn why your kids drive you crazy and what you can do about it. You”ll find the resources you need to help you cope and raise great kids.
- When Your Kids Push Your Buttons
- Confident Parents, Remarkable Kids
- Audiobooks
- The Buttons Parent Workbook
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Have you ever asked yourself, “Why did I DO that??”
Wish you knew what else to do?
Learn how to deal with kids who don”t listen — and lots more.
- Part One – includes Part 1 workbook
- Part Two – (Part 1 highly recommended prior to Part 2) – includes Part 2 workbook
- Part One and Two purchased together – includes full workbook
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Ever think your child will never listen? Imagine if you switched your thinking to realize she is having a problem, not being a problem. It can change your life. Learn how Connective Parenting can get you to the place you want to be. Connective Parenting asks parents to speak to their kids in the same way they want their kids to speak to them. In other words – Don”t expect your kids to be the grownup first.
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Read Bonnie’s article in Psyche Magazine
How to stop yelling at your kids
You can’t control your child’s emotions, but by questioning your assumptions and expectations you can become a calmer parent.
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